honestly, im waay in over my head and i need help.
i ran away from my parents house in feburary because my father abused me and it was to the point where he tried to rape me while i was sleeping. i recently got an apartment with my boyfriend in october and ive been unemployed for the last three months or so. thats why we depend on what he make which isnt much (about 1200 monthly) were so behind on rent (and our landlord knows our situation and doesnt really care either) were about to get the electricity turned off we have no more cable and heres the kicker i recently found out that im pregnant. our rent right now is at 1015 if anyone knows a rent assistance program that will help ASAP it would mean the world to us
I hate to be doing this but I am afraid I have nowhere else to go. Due to the recent changes in the economy and a little bad luck I have lost my job and almost everything I own. I have tried desperately to get help from my friends, family, financial institutions and even the government but I have had no luck at all. I am currently applying for any and every job so I can get a few paychecks under my belt to help me hang in there but I don't thing I can make it that much longer. I have already lost my car and i am way behind on rent and utilities and am now facing eviction with nowhere else to go. My spouse and I are wanting to get married and start a family but that is hardly an option at this point. Please find it in your heart to help out a struggling couple. I don’t care if you send me $1 or $1000 anything would mean the world to us at this point. I need help asap i only have a few days before i am out on the streets! Thank you and if you are interested please email me and I will tell you how to send relief.
(2) Family does NOT always listen to family. Someone else can tell her the EXACT same thing that you have been telling her and it will 'sink in'. However, when we tell family members stuff, to them it will sound like 'mumbo jumbo'.
WHAT CAN YOU DO?
Leave your daughter ALONE and do not nag her. Rather, instead pray & FAST for her. Somethings, especially addiction issues will break by prayer & fasting ONLY. Prayer alone often does NOT work.
Also, the best thing you can do for your daughter (and yourself) is: BE THE EXAMPLE.
Concentate on getting YOUR life together. When she see how your life has changed for the positive, that will be the best teacher for her. That will make her take notice more so than anything else.
HOW DO YOU GET YOUR LIFE TOGETHER?
(1) Get you some counseling.
(2) FAST & pray for God to deliver you from your addictions. Get your church, prayer lines, prayer groups to pray for you as well.
(3) If you are not already into a 'faith-speaking/word teaching church', then get into one.
(4) Go to AA, NA, CA (or whatever the issue is) meetings. Go to as many as you can. Get a SPONSOR.
(5) Find someone to teach you how to use money wisely. There are many books and TV programs out there. These are only a few: Dave Ramsey, Suze Orman & David Bach. If you would like to email me, contact me, and I can teach you.
I have made many serious bad choices in my life without giving any thought to what the outcome might be. Having come from adult children as parents having no knowledge of the values that positive in-put and good learning habits have threw out ones life especially how to save money, spending wisely, and learnig various ways of saving and varios ways to earn interest.To make a long story short; I have a twenty-six year old daughter whom I need to find maybe 1 or 2 hours bi-weekly as well as sit in on therapy sessions with me; this bipolar and mental illness as well as dual addicted is hereitary, only she can stop the chain! No matter how I try to explain when the moods drastically change it is not the use off drugs or alcohol , but my disorder mimics alot of the behavior. I have some other health problems the most serious is a dislocated jaw as well as a mass (tumor) said to be benin, and due to the loss of teeth and the distortion of my face an speeech as well as effecting my over all health I stay isolated.My life show, to beable to smile and great people is what makes me feel good.
I need to find a physician that handles TMJ and various effectsuch as mine to put me and my life back together before it is to late. I am fifty-six and need to complete school , get my degree so I can do what Our Lord Jesus wants me to do!
Please if anyone out there knows of some one good, kind and has empathy for others , please help me!
Stay in touch and may God Always Bless and be with you.
I am a 43 year old garndmother of 5 right now I have my grand daughter living with me along with my son and husband I recently was in car accident and I am out of work because of my injury my husband is still working but we have got behind because we had two deaths in the family plus we were victims of a scam thaat cost us some money. Our house is in foreclosure and we really would like to save our home My teeanger has a special need he has ADHD and Hyperactive My Grand daughter has down syndrome and has had open heart surgery and she is now 15 months old and we need help so bad I'm loosing all hope My husband and I are church going people and we are always helping people in need now we need help we are praying for angel from heaven to helps us out this stressful situation GOD BLESS Williams Family
